Since this is a TROM forum - forgive me for keeping quoting Dennis - I never saw the word "honesty" in TROM works.
Dennis puts a lot of emphasis on being in a no games condition, or what he calls "complementary".
Dennis did say covert game strategies are considered not good play - a form of deception or dishonesty, right?
For example, when I get grief on social media from my exact opposer - must-not-know - I find a point of agreement to be complementary. The end
Communicating honestly is a skill and an art for sure, and so is knowing what is the correct auditing question.
BTW, I discovered that running Dennis' "To Handle" process vanishes the covert games mimicry we picked up from our childhood caretakers.
The TED Talker actually said "reactive mind"
Yes, a compulsive games player will miss social cues, so Code of Ethics applies - neither unwanted force nor prevention.
This is a very popular technique right now and you can see that the developer had some exposure to Dianetics at some point: